@yepimonfire
"You'd need a large room for room gain to actually be beneficial"
This is completely false.
"small rooms can actually push the -3dB point up, for example, my 12x11 bedroom has modes at ~50 and 45hz, since it's nearly square, I get a nice 10dB bump centered on 50hz, pushing my small subs 30hz f3 down 6dB."
Half of this is nearly nonsensical. The other half seems to be your anecdotal experience with your *very* small room.
"Let's say a sealed sub starts next rolling off anechoically at 35hz, and it's down 12dB at 20hz. We would need a room that was at least 25' long"
Now you're making stuff up...
It's really simple. If you do that formula you'll have a good idea where your room gain will begin to build, generally at 6dB per octave. YMMV, but generally the larger the room, the less impact room gain will have, not the other way around. Yes, you'll get room modes which can occur with infinite randomness based on your room, but the room gain will still occur.