Yes, I do that quite often... Listening to only the Sub(s), as well as only the mains (full range and crossed over), and then both together. I have for many years implemented setups with only dual Subs in order to take advantage of everything that this has to offer, so Time Delay on the main speakers (as well each Sub) is a must, however to your point... I have found that many people seem to actually 'like' the Fattening of the Bass which occurs when the Subwoofer(s) is in fact a bit delayed as compared to the mains (often in setups where where the Subs are crossed over to meet the mains running Full range). I've heard more than one very expensive setup which had the Sub(s) either 1/2 Cycle or 1 Full Cycle delayed compared to the mains, and both the high-end audio store who sold the setup, as well the new owner felt everything sounded good

(). And again, I've heard countless systems where the Sub(s) were clearly delayed compared to the main speakers (and often to each other) and the owners felt that their systems never sounded better (Fatter Bass

). So Yes, I guess that I tend to be a bit more sensitive to all of the above than most people (especially the ones who downright prefer the Fattening of the Bass

). Oh, and exactly - when the 'Feeling' of the Plucking of a Bass or a Kick drum isn't perceived to me to be 100% in line with what I am 'hearing' (coming as you say from the higher frequencies) this is exactly what I dislike (notice). However when these both are 100% in sync with each other (or close enough that these ears can't tell otherwise), I simply lose myself in the music (and I am no longer listening to an Audio System, but rather lost in the Music).