That Atlantic Technology speaker bar has virtual surrounds that bounce sound off the walls. Reviews claim that it provides an impressively enveloping sound -- but without a back wall, who knows how it will sound in your room till you audition it? If you want distinct surrounds, you could go with a passive soundbar attached to the LCR channels of your AVR and add surrounds. I'm not too sure about ceiling surrounds to be honest, unless you really enjoy how the music sounds while you're in the grocery store. I'd personally rather have nothing than that. I think wall-mount side surrounds would sound better. Maybe your wife would agree to a pair of
Fluance AVBP2? They're pretty inconspicuous. If not, then she might go for a pair of the previously recommended
NHT in-walls, or possibly the
HTD in-walls if your budget is stretched.
Unless you have to decide on the format prior to making a purchase (e.g. you've got a contractor waiting for you to decide where to cut holes and fish wires), I'd say give the Atlantic Technology speaker bar a chance. Outlaw offers a 30-day in-home trial, and you'll only be out the cost of return shipping (
per their FAQ) if it fails the audition.