I think I will turn the system up on my next movie night and see what happens.
May I suggest this method...
> Do your initial speaker setup w/ Audyssey.
> Set the sub volumes using the gain on back of the subs such that your AVR shows 0dB adjustment.
> For your movie, increase the sub volumes in your AVR +3dB.
> Listen at whatever overall volume you want.
> If you don't hear any of the obviously bad things described above, you're OK.
> For your next movie, try increasing the sub volumes in your AVR to +6dB.
> Listen, and if no bad sounds, you're still OK.
I found that the Audyssey sub volume setting most favorable for music. It sounds like the bass is accurate and not overly emphasized. So for music, I leave the sub volumes in the AVR at 0dB, or simply listen in Direct.
For TV/Movies, I like enhanced bass. I usually boost the sub volumes to +6dB. We have watched many movies with hot bass and LFE... and listened very loud. The windows flex like a trampoline, the tables shake, the glass of tea skitters across the table, the chairs shake and I have to pee. So far, no damage to my subs.
My room is bigger than yours by a lot, (cathedral ceiling and "T" shaped). I have an SVS PB13Ultra and a Rythmik FV15HP. Honestly, I think if you have yet to "feel" any bass in your movies, you have a lot of available bass you're not using.