Sorry to hear of your continuing difficulties.
Grounding issues can often be very difficult to solve.
Now it is time to start disconnecting grounds to sort this out.
Disconnect the turntable grounds from the preamp and NAD. Do you hear hum? If so then use a cheater plugs to disconnect all grounds in your system.
Do you now hear hum from the turntable? If yes then connect grounds back from the turntable to the preamp and then the NAD and then both together.
If none of these options stops the hum then there is something wrong with the grounding inside your turntable or you have induced hum. (See Below)
If the hum stops when you break all the grounds and you have your turntable connected correctly, then remove the cheater plugs one at a time to see which one is creating the ground loop.
If you do this carefully you will find out where your ground loop comes from.
One last thing, it is possible you have induced hum and not a ground loop. So make sure the turntable is not right next to a source of a magnetic field. This means keeping the turntable some distance from units like your NAD that has a power transformer.
Hum like this is always a ground loop or electromagnetically induced hum, with ground loops being the most common.