Hey skaars,
Someone’s been feeding you a line of bull. It’s no problem going from unbalanced RCA to a balanced XLR input. I have some equalizers in my system that only have XLR in and outs, that I’m feeding with RCA to XLR cables, and everything works just fine.
Another alternative, possible cheaper, would be to use RCA to 1/4" TS (tip-sleeve) cables. That will work fine as well.
Regards,
Wayne A. Pflughaupt