I'm not sure what you mean by "sonically reliable", so I'll take a guess. All of those types of tweeters you mentioned have been around long enough to be considered reliable in the sense that they work well and usually don't fail.
Of the types you listed, diamond, beryllium, silk, and titanium, all are really a single type – domed tweeters made with various materials, textile (silk) or metal alloys. (You didn't mention the most common metal tweeter dome, aluminum.) In fact the beryllium tweeters are really an alloy of aluminum containing a small percent beryllium. The so-called diamond tweeters are a metal alloy coated with a fine layer of diamond dust. Domed tweeters have been around since at least the 1970s and share the general structure of an aluminum voice coil attached to a small light-weight relatively stiff dome. The voice coil converts the electrical signal into mechanical vibration, and the dome moves the air.
And then there are ribbon tweeters. They are a significantly different technology that can, under the right circumstances, sound superior. In ribbons, the voice coil is a thin sheet or ribbon of aluminum that functions both as the voice coil and the air-moving surface. Ribbons are much lighter than dome-voice coil structures, and as a result, respond to signal much faster.
I can think of very good speakers that have both types of tweeters. Equally important is how well tweeters are integrated with woofers or mid range drivers by the crossover.
If I were spending what you propose for speakers, I'd look for speakers that use ribbon tweeters made by a company called RAAL. Those speaker companies would be Salk, Philharmonic Audio, and Ascend Acoustics. All of them are designed by people who understand crossover design for these types of tweeters.