BSA, I have a situation similar to yours - Open concept Living room, kitchen, dining, entry, office, stairway, and upstairs bridge/balcony/hallway. Attempting pressurization would be insane!
For music, two Rythmik E15HP's (not co-located) give me way more bass than I need with their volume at 12 o'clock (Denon Audyssey has at -7.5dB and I am running them with Energy RC-10's right now which are 85.5dB sensitivity).
I haven't really pushed them for HT. To get the effect of a real theater would require turning up the subs which would be annoying when music played. A ported would probably be better if this is your concern. However, I am heavily biased towards sealed because they are consistently tighter than ported.
Looking at the pulse response between SVS SB1000 and PB1000 we can see how much greater the overhang is for a port (also affected by timing issues between driver and port). This might not be the best comparison, but it is the best I could find with these charts that make sense to me (courtesy of Jman):
SB1000 (SPL below 80dB at around 40ms)
PB1000(SPL below 80dB at around 70ms)