I plugged the second sub in to the pre outs on the main sub if that helps, but as far as power goes there all on there own power point I have 4 where the system is
As folks have mentioned before, you definitely have a 'Ground Loop' situation. The humming is happening because your devices have multiple paths to ground (4 power points). In one or more pairs of devices you have signal interference due to two parallel ground paths.
This is not uncommon and it can be easily resolved. It will take patience and a systematic approach to get to the root cause.
It takes two to tango. It's clear the new subwoofer is creating a ground loop situation. The question is, which other device is contributing to the loop?
Leave the new sub plugged in and humming. Now one by one disconnect other devices, starting with the older sub till the hum stops.
When you have found the other device, you know they both need to be on the same power point, even if it means simply moving them into the same surge strip.
Be warned, it could even be a TV or fridge in a different room, but, on the same electrical circuit. It could even be the broadband internet modem or set top box coax cable. Pretty much anything on the same circuit and having a ground path.
Getting ready to throw it all out the door it's pissed me off way to much now
Worst case scenario, nothing else is working in terms of finding the other device causing the loop, start looking for isolation transformers. Something like the Australian version of this,
http://www.sweetwater.com/store/detail/HumX and put the new subwoofer on it.