guys, thanks a lot for the replies, you have made me research quite a bit more than i previously did
the most important first reaction is to drop JBL from consideration altogether (as mike mentioned and everybody else added to it or implied the same).
the next thing that happened is that i had one decent sales guy show me a marantz sr-4500 + def tech pro cinema 60 (and i find it an unbelievable coincidence the fact that snap mentioned it in his post
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i need to add that the sound those 2 delivered blew my ears off
i checked mike_c suggestions but they were a tad out of my league ($).
so right now im on a pensative mood and i will list my considerations:
rx-v757 + athena .5 + advent sub
i really love this setup (thx takeereasy for the awesome amazon promo) + free shipping for both speakers + this will keep me on budget
sr-4500 + def tech pro cinema 60
well this is what i personally heard and it was gooooooood. but sr-4500 is only 80w x chan, so i'm not sure about that .. maybe i need at least 95w ?
rx-v657 + def tech pro cinema 60
there you are. 95w + on budget, i could even start a 3 month diet and go for the rx-v757
i will still do more research on the marantz sr-4500, maybe look at a higher model (sr-5400 or sr-5600) even if the sr-5600 will only go up to 90w.
thank to everyone. i'll keep you posted.