Correct, LFE channel always go to just the sub
unless you tell your receiver or DVD player(if your using the analogue connections) you don't have a sub, in this case it will send the LFE channel to those speakers set to LARGE. Even if you use the 'LFE+MAIN' or 'Double Bass' feature in many receivers the LFE channel will still go to only the sub
This will depend on the bass management of the DVD player(where the same rules apply if the DVD player is capable), because now your using the analogue connection from the DVD player you are relying on it's bass management and not the receivers
No, you could have one with only LFE and the other with LFE + bass from other speakers(unless you use other equipment in the chain or use speaker level outputs to the second sub, but most subs with this ability can normally do this for just two channels)
I'll explain.
Say you set your DVD player to all speakers LARGE and subwoofer to ON ----> you'll get just the LFE channel coming out the analogue sub output
now you have the digital connection going to the receiver and you have its speakers set to SMALL and subwoofer to ON ----->you'll get the LFE channel
(because you have told the receiver you have a sub it will always send the LFE channel to the sub(and to just the sub) unless you tell the receiver you don't have a sub)+ the bass
(below the Xover point) from all the other channels because they are set to small
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