I had thought of that, especially since the power amp doesn't have any volume knobs on the front, separate items would be a pain. Just thought it could be modulated via the pc remote/mouse, but when I think of the amount of times things have already popped up loudly as it is. You're definitely right, it isn't worth the risk.
The units I'm looking at don't have any of the newer features, one has a full set of preouts, the other has a multi channel in, but no preouts, so the card could do the decoding. Could send the front rca's to the stereo amp, still the same volume issue. Or use the multi channel in, wire both amps to the front speakers and make sure only one amp is used at a time. Involves setting up different outputs on the card which could be a pain.
What does everyone else do? New HT amp with good stereo performance I assume?