I do have an open attic directly above the room, although no basement... I had a basement, none of this would be an issue... In our next house, I told my wife, I get one room as a media room, no exceptions, and she is fine with that... so I just have to make due until then...
The living room is a very open concept type area, that is open to the kitchen, foyer, and dining area. I am not expecting something that will go down to 20hz flat at 100+ decibels... I just want something to help with the low-end that the Primus' cannot do... I appreciate all of your opinions and help, so keep it coming...
Also the end table thing would not work because of the layout of our room, it would require having to run wires under the carpet... Not going to happen...