Thanks for all the input, fellow forum members. One thing I want to keep aware of that few people seem to consider is how much power draw everything has. Given that the receiver, television, cable box, and all other pieces in the mix are located together and plugged into the same wall circuit, I don't want to start a fire!
I should probably stick with my original plan and go with Denon AVR-X4100W, Yamaha or similar Marantz. The Denon is rated at 125W/ch @ 8Ω so being just about 31% more than the AVR-1912 it should be perfect. A little more "safe zone" headroom for when no one else is home and I'm cranking it, without being over the top.
And YES, I would be rendered deaf in a 13x19x8 room if I ran it anywhere near the top for very long. Getting R300 for rear surrounds just might be so good that my patience for watching movies increases and I start doing it more often.