Hey Fenix, what you're asking for... a consensus... doesn't exist. it's no different then the people who come here and ask "what's the best speaker?" It'll depend.
Here's my take, both guns you mention are quality pieces that will serve you well. What makes one right for you is whether or not features, price, feel, etc. meet your needs and expectations. I'll give you an example. Glock vs XD. I'm not one of the guys who'll argue which one is better. Anyone who says one or the other sucks is just an idiot and you can dismiss anything they say. I've gotten rid of my Glocks and have switched to XD... not because my Glock was a bad gun... the thing is it just never felt good in my hand...ever. It was a great gun, an absolutely reliable tac-driver, but I just felt awkward with it. A few years ago, I shot my buddies XD, and it just fit my hand like a glove. It felt like an extention of my hand that's how good it fits... the only thing better is my custom 1911's.
So what I would suggest is that you go to a good gun store and handle the guns. Don't be pressured to make any decisions. Just go and hold the guns.. handle them, point them (in a safe direction) and get a feel for them. See what features they have, how the safetys works, the slide stop. Feel the trigger pull... all those things. You'll be surprised how different two guns can be and you'll be even more surprised that you'll quickly develop preferences.
That's my 2 cents.