I've heard about 1/3 of the size of the driver's magnet is good. If you are attaching to the driver, you don't want it to be too heavy, or it could affect the drivers performance. Also, you don't need a 1:1, because the distance will help too. The further away they are, the less the need for the bucking magnets.
They are really cheap and come in several sizes from Parts express. Shipping will likely be more than the magnets themselves. Buy several and experiment.
Another option is to put steel in between the driver and the tv. Some use cookie sheets or whatever. Rolls of steel (avoid aluminium) are avaliable from Home Depot in the roofing supplies area, and that is what I used to line the inside of my subs. Worked real well. I didn't need any of the magnets I bought, even when placing the subs right next to the tv. YMMV due to your tv's sheilding (or lack there-of). You can either try and glue the steel inside your speaker or on the outside just floating.