For stereo music, no bass is not mono. For movie sound tracks when using an AVR, the LFE channel is mono but for music it is up to the mixing engineering. Bass is non-directional to the ear below certain frequencies, but for music you want to connect both L+R channels to the subwoofers. The other issue is that you are considering disconnecting just one channel (either left or right) with the subwoofers. That will create in inbalance between the two channels. You want the same impedance on both left and right channels.