Thanks Mike,
I looked up the prices of the stuff that was recommended and it looks like you'd be looking at $3-5 sq ft if you DIY and maybe as much as $10 if you hire it out. You didn't mention the size of the room, but considering we're talking four walls and the ceiling a budget in the neighborhood of ten grand would, I think, be in the ballpark. Given that you're only planning on being in the home only a few more years, you might want to consider a few things:
-it's unlikely you'll be able to recover much, if any, of these costs in a sale- that is, your home will sell for about the same amount whether you've got this soundproofing or not.
- there is no guarantee that this will work to your wife's satisfaction, so you might end up, after spending a lot of money and aggravation exactly where you are now.
Another approach you might consider, depending on exactly what you listen to and like about bass is to think about looking at one of those 'buttkicker' things on your chair, combined with a sub a lower levels, and maybe earplugs for your wife at the far end of the house might get you where you want to be at a far less cost for what is, really, a temporary situation.
That said, the root problem isn't really the bass, it's your wife's reaction to it and thus the real solution lies in negotiation and communication aimed at finding some way that you both can get what you want while neither feels that they're being asked to do something unreasonable.
Technology is not the solution to all problems.