Welcome DIY newbie. I want to encourage you in your efforts at building, and at the same time, echo what the others have said about using generic crossovers. They almost never work well. Just the same, go ahead and use this off the shelf crossover. Be ready to listen and observe how poorly (or well) it works with your 3-way. Then you'll be ready to start learning how to do it better the next time around.
... the crossover has three common 'C' plugs on the left, along with 'm', 'w', and 't' plugs. And an 'in' and another 'C' plug on the right. I don't know which 'c' plugs from the left side correspond to the individual 'm' 'w' and 't' plugs. I sent a letter to tech support, but have yet to hear back. Any help would be great
To answer your question, all the common plugs are the same electrically, and all C plugs on your board are essentially interchangeable. The M, W, and T plugs are the + connections for the midrange, woofer, and tweeter, as you have already guessed. Any C plug will work as the – connection for each of these drivers. Use which ever is most convenient for you.