Agreed. If people put their listening rooms and ht's where they should be, instead of where they usually migrate, or what's convenient, they would not only have a better starting point (an acoustical room), they would not have half the problems that exist in non-acoustical rooms (one or two walls missing, a ceiling, or half a ceiling missing, lots of doors, windows and glass, too much wood, too much concrete, stone or terazzo, etc.).
On the other hand, it's meant to be social and used often. I hate quandaries. Cheers.