Thank you all to the replies.
Bandphan, your solution crossed my mind, but because it was so simple, I was convinced it wouldn't work! So on your advice, I will try that.
Markw, I do have a switchbox I used on my old setup, but really don't want to rely on a manual operation to control my DVD and TV. Of couse, if that's all I can do, I can live with it . And I have the switchbox already so what the heck.
What I was thinking this morning as I was looking at my switchbox is that maybe I can use my switchbox only to split the connection and not have to manually switch between TV and DVD. I didn't give this too much thought yet, but for each input on the switchbox, there is a video input, audio input (2), and an S video input. Maybe I can connect the TV output with the switchbox video and audio inputs and then, in the same area there, hook up the DVD S Video output with the S video input? Easy enough to try, I am just momentarily involved in too many projects.
I will also try re-routing the video feed as suggested, and I know that I can always fall back on the traditional use of the switchbox.
You guys rock! Thank you!
Also Adam, my system is a Sony DAVHDX277WC. It has this cool S-Air thing so I can hear my music in another room without rocking out the entire neighborhood, and I can hookup my Ipod easily enough, and all that for what I thought was a great price. $347 and free shipping. Any ideas from you would be appreciated. Thanks.