OK... I'm pretty sure I'm an idiot now.
I have been listening at low-to-moderate levels with primarily CDs and DVD-Audio. The bass is there, but I felt it was low (though clearly MUCH tighter than the lil Sony).
This morning, after the kids got up, I put in The Incredibles (same scene as was demoed at the store) and that thing damn near woke the dead!
Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm now thinking a good sub shouldn't seem TOO loud with music, but should provide depth and definition (particularly if your mains can go fairly low and Paradigm Titans are pretty good with that. Of course, when I crank the receiver, the sub DOES keep up. It's just that I'm rarely afforded that opportunity (WAF).
Does that make sense-- or am I MORE of an idiot that I thought?