OK I really wish now that I did not write this post late last night when I was extremely furstrated over multiple events that day. The remote was just the last straw because when I wanted to relax and watch TV I couldn't and I rambled on in the above post.
I don't expect them to fix it for free. I never said I did. I looked up when I bought it and it's actually only 18 months old. I do not feel that I am being unreasonable in expecting a remote with an MSRP of nearly $400 to last longer than 18 months before needing repair.
I am very gentle with my electronics and I keep them clean and in top notch shape. This remote is no exception and no, nothing has ever spilled on it.
I took it to work again and the tech used a different adhesive that should adhere to the silicone. He has not had good luck with the conductive paint and that is why he prefers the foil method. If it doesn't work this time I will call URC but he is confident that it will work fine as he has repaired many remotes this way and never had issues.
Here are pictures of the guts in case anyone is curious.
http://s14.photobucket.com/albums/a327/Hi_Ho/Remote/