About 12 or 14 feet back from the center is my primo seating position
At that distance, those Speakers are WAY too close together.
It is your home and your system, so please don't misunderstand this as anything other than what it is meant to be: constructive and qualified (in that my statement comes with qualifications, not that I am a qualified expert!
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In my setting, with a seating distance of ~7.5-8', and the mains being ~6' apart (all measured center baffle to center baffle) I am right at the minimum recommended distance for Dolby placement of 22º to the left and right for Mains.
We all have our limitations and have to work with the space we have, so I well understand the compromises we have to make.
Ideally, I would say at the distance you say you sit, mains should be 10-11' apart on center if you are at 12' distance; ~12' apart if you are at 14' distance...
I do not believe in the equilateral triangle, rather the isosceles triangle for listening. With the right placement of Speaker to seating location, you will get everything much better in focus.
Perhaps then, toeing in would be worth considering, but right now, as it stands, you ar only ~17º off axis assuming 13' distance-from, and 8' placement l-r on center...
You are right to not toe them in considering your room.
So unless you move or "remodel..." you do you.
If you are happy with the sound, please continue to enjoy.