Here's another tip. Have your own money stash and DO NOT let her know how much you pay for your HT stuff. A good buy to us is too much money to them. My wife doesnt have a clue how much i pay because she never see's a CC bill or a check so she just doesnt pay that much attention to it. Now if she saw i payed $2800 for my bike,she would sh$t even at 15% of she just wouldnt understand. At least that works for me.