So you're looking at 1900+ cubic ft assuming 8ft ceilings. Not gigantic, but not tiny either.
I don't mind paying a reasonable premium for looks, I have a partner to consider so there is no way any big ass box will float so compromises need to be made. Plus, I like nice looking things and I'm willing to shed some real deep performance for reasonable deep performance that looks good; however, it has to make sense technically as I don't want to waste money.
My thoughts that are around the same price as the Kef are as follows
A custom sub from Salk
http://salksound.com/salkrythmik - home.htm
Hsu, only one veneer option, but on the smaller side and it'll definitely give you the performance.
http://hsuresearch.com/products/uls-15mk2.html
Awesome warranty, free trial, small footprint, and great performance
http://www.svsound.com/collections/sealed-subwoofers/products/sb13-ultra
Rythmik Excellent subwoofers at a variety of price points and different sealed versions which keeps the footprint small.
http://www.rythmikaudio.com/products1.html
Source Technology Loudspeakers, don't mind the website. I know John personally, but his products deliver.
http://www.sourcespeaker.com/Sublist-2.html
So given these parameters it sounds like the single KEF doesn't really get me past what the two RELs are doing anyway.
Not really, IMO, but I'm just going off the specs. Like I said, you'll get bit more extension with the Kef, but overall I don't think it's worth the price.
I just wonder how overmatched by the room they are? They sit across from a thick couch, and the floor is covered wall to wall with a wool rug. In general the acoustics are rather good.
With subwoofers acoustics are only part of it. Subwoofers work by moving air and they "see" all the air that is present in not only the room, but in any other room that is connected that isn't sealed off. The most efficient way to move more air is more surface area. So either you add more drivers, or have a subwoofer with a bigger cone. To make a long story short, if you want effortless deep bass, you need to overplan the sub. Neither the Kef nor the Rel's are really close to some of the other options listed.