The LPF for the LFE channel is actually supposed to be set up around 120 Hz (that's what my receiver defaults to). But I don't think you're talking about that...
In terms of the crossover for the redirected bass in the other channels, I actually raised mine from 40 Hz for all 5 channels, which is what Audyssey measured and set it at, to 100 Hz for the front 3 and 80 Hz for the surrounds. I don't know why letting the mains carry more of the signal is preferred - I can either have 140w running through a single 5.25" woofer on each side or 2400w running through two 15" woofers for those lower octaves. Which one of those seems more likely to excel below 100-120 Hz?
If I had a 2nd sub in the same general position as the current sub (up front, flanking my mains), I'd raise the crossover even higher, like to 150 Hz.
Provided you can get proper integration, I'd rather have a high crossover vs a lower one. Let each speaker play to their relative strengths.
I will add that I have not measured my frequency response in room, so I don't know how well they are crossed over, but I'm happy with what I'm hearing and I feel my approach is logical, so I'm not inclined to change it at this time.