I've met two
Rip Van Woofer said:
I think women tend to hear past the delivery system, whether it's a crappy radio or a high-end stereo and cue in directly on the music itself - music being the art that appeals most directly to the emotions. (Musicians and many serious music lovers of both sexes seem to tend to do this, too but I'm not suggesting any connection there to gender differences). Really, with a lot of 'philes the music seems secondary (not with moi, of course!); that has of course been the butt of humor from time to time in the general culture.
My oldest and closest friends are all truly excelent musicians (
http://www.aspexband.com). I was amazed that they could listen to great music, poorly recorded, on the cheesiest of stereos without any concern for the poor fidelity. It took me years to learn how to ignore the system and hear the music. Only one of those musician friends would know a good playback system from a bad one. He is, in addition to being a great musician, also a great producer/engineer.
I think I can "listen through" the playback mechinism but, I can still appreciate a truly great sound system.
Only twice have I met women who had a discriminating ear for HiFi. Once I met a women a friend was trying to hook-up with. The friend (foolishly
) asked me to help her setup her new stereo. It was clear she had a good ear and could not get the system to sound "like it did at the store". I explained about listening rooms at HiFi stores and helped her get it sounding as good as it could (which I recall was very good). Still, she was bent on returning it. Unfortunately, for me and the friend, her company relocated her and I never found out if she got a new system.
The second time I met a women with a good ear, she was dating a guitarist. We ended up leaving a club at closing time and went to a studio where the guitarist was working on a project. While he busied himself typing "I LOVE YOU" using the channel assignment buttons on the mixing console, she and I were talking about sound systems and hearing. To answer the important question; No! She was way out of my league
.
I must say I have met very few men with a good ear for fidelity. Most are happy with a Bose system. I do, however, think most men I've met would know a better sound system from a lesser one. It's possible many women would as well. I just don't think most women care as much.
jrohland