If the speakers are set to Large the sub will receive NONE of the signal for that channel. The subwoofer will always get the LFE regardless of the Large/Small settting on other channels.
This is what it says in the Panasonic DMP-BD10 blu-ray player:
Large Speaker- Select when the speaker supports
low-frequency (under 100 Hz) reproduction.
Small Speaker- Select when the speaker does not support low-frequency
reproduction.
When playing discs recorded with Dolby TrueHD or DTS-HD, even if
you select “Small”, audio output will have an effect similar to when
“Large” is selected.
So in this case (TrueHD & DTS-HD), even if you set your speaker to SMALL, it makes it LARGE anyway!
And this is from the Toshiba HD-XA1 manual:
Small Speaker- Select if the speaker cannot output low frequency.
Large Speaker- Select if the speaker can output low frequency.
Crossover- Low frequency under which you set here will be of a subwoofer. Select one from 80 Hz/100 Hz/120 Hz.
In this case, it appears that regardless of how you set your speaker size, whatever you set as the CROSSOVER will determine what goes to your SUBWOOFER? You can set to SMALL or LARGE and 80Hz, and the subwoofer will get everything below 80Hz regardless?