Yes, BMXTRIX, I agree with most of what you say. I was really not commenting on the calculus of screen sizing (viewing angle, resolution, lumens, etc.). My simple comment, again, is the individual comfortableness of screen size to viewing distance ratio.
While some sit front and center at a movie theatre, or even 5-10 rows back, and love the experience of the screen "filling" their entire field of vision...others simply cannot stand it. It is taxing on their eyes, brain, and ultimately, their neck. Most people prefer to sit in the middle of the theater, if not the back.
My comment to ciotime, again, is ascertain what ratio he is comfortable with prior to purchase, so that he does not have to install the vertical bands to downsize an overly large screen. It is not that difficult to purchase the screen last, and do a quick audition on a wall for sizing purposes. Most everyone seems to say "bigger", and I'm suggesting that he size it first for comfortableness (as df said). Bigger is not always better, and their is an appropriate screen size for every ht:
1) one that is recommended by thx, pc, and the various formulas, all of which ought to be considered prior to the purchase of a screen; and,
2) that size that the viewer is comfortable with.
That's all. Cheers.