I've done a ton of research, reading all those forums, as well as going out and looking at the sets. My viewing distance ranges from 7' to 15'.
My wife and I like these:
1. Panasonic TH-58PZ700u, and TH-50PZ700u.
2. Samsung LED DLP HLT-5089. and HLT-6189.
3. Pioneer PDP 5070, and PDP 5080.
Yes I know the Pioneer's arn't 1080p native, but from what I've read and seen, they look better then alot of them.
We thought about the Pioneer Elite's for a heart beat, and then saw the price.
We're going on vacation for 2-3 weeks, during that time, we'll have to discuss the $'s more and buy 1 when we get back.
I've friends who have had problems with the Sony XBR2/3's. Specifically with the quality of the product, and they also all have the cloud problem.