If your looking at less then $1K for speakers, let me recommend that you go stereo. You will save allot, and get a VERY clean, crisp sounding setup. A Sub is needed for Movies, so call it a 2.1 channel system.
Either that, or go with a bit more and buy some used speakers. Thiel, B&W, Paradigm and a few others can be bought for around 60% their original value when you go used. They require power, which isnt cheap and should rarely be bought used.
I would recommend buying the Projector ONLY, and then spending the money on the speakers.
Their is a calculation to determine distance to screen, but I do not know it off the top of my head
I recommend the cheapest speaker cables you can find... in fact go down to a local home depot/electornic store and buy some lamp cable. Their are allot of people who feel that speaker cable is VERY important, yet from every reasonable study I have seen, people cant tell the difference. I have heard of reports of blind tests involving strung together coat hangers compaired to expensive speaker wire, where their was no difference in what people noticed.
Mike