If you're worried about shipping, try Aperion Audio (
http://www.aperionaudio.com/home.aspx) -- they have free shipping both ways and a 30-day in-home trial so you have nothing to lose.
So, for your $1700 here's what you might consider....
2 x Verus Grand Bookshelf @$299 each
1 x Verus Grand Center @$699
2 x Verus Forte Satellite @$175 each
Your total is $1647 shipped to your door (and shipped back if you don't like them). The Verus Grand line (or maybe just the Verus Grand Towers) was reviewed recently here on Audioholics and I believe one or two other sites.
And for the sub, $800 can get you a lot. Check out the ones already mentioned (HSU, Epic, SVS, etc.) or add Emotiva (
http://emotiva.com/) to your list as well -- you could get 2 10" sealed subs for $608, or 2 12" sealed subs for $808 (they're on sale now and you get an extra $50 off if you buy 2 or more). Free shipping too (one-way). The 12" sub was reviewed recently here on Audioholics.
I think this set-up would exceed anything currently on your list. And the customer service for both Aperion and Emotiva are first rate -- great people to deal with. I am not affiliated with either company, but use their products and/or have friends that do.
Good luck with your insurance claim and let us know what you decide.