No, you don't have to stand them up. In fact, Dr Hsu told me a lot of people use them lying on their side, and they're easier to hide if you don't like the look. If you have carpet you'll find they're not as tippy as they look like they would be, but if you're worried (or have pets/kids) go ahead and lay them down.
Dr Hsu also advised me that it's not worth doing the push/pull thing. That must be a holdover on the web site because he himself told me not to bother.
Adding multiple subs may not give you added extention per se, but you do get more output at all freqs. The TN-1220 is tuned & EQ'd for 18 hz, and with a pair you'll get staggering output down to the lower reaches of the largest pipe organ fundamentals. Perhaps there are subs that can go louder and lower, but I get over 115 dB @ 20 hz in room (perhaps I could go louder, but I simply don't have the nerves to try!).
You might want to consult with Hsu Research before you buy, though- they
claim their new "turbo" port will allow a single box to equal a
pair of TN-1220's...that seems to strain credulity, but perhaps it's so. If that's the case you may want to hold out for a pair of them.
All told, my Hsu's are about the only thing in my system that I probably would't change if I had a million dollars!
I've toyed with the idea of adding another pair, even though it would be absurb overkill- maybe when I win the lottery!