Mmm, in terms of a dlna compliant streaming device, I had in mind the popcorn hour or the popbox whenever that comes out (not too worried as it is irght now) I think I wrote it wrong on my op about streaming video as well, as the dlna device would do that.
And, yep to both Selden and Highfish, I totally forgot about hdmi splitters/amplifiers. That would definitely be the way to go, as opposed to the extra 600-700 bucks
With regards to the onkyos,
The NR receivers which I had looked at before looked awesome, but the denon which has the same feature set is much cheaper. (I understand that there actual hardware differences which are explained ad nauseum in most avr reviews. My idea is that, well, I probably can't hear the difference, sad as that may be)
In any case, thanks for all the replies and help! As it stands, the 990 looks like the one I'm getting..along with a popcorn hour