took everyone's advice,looked harder and found this setup within my buget here we go...
mitsubishi hc-900u dlp projector
103" 16:9 vu-easy screen
marantz sr5500
marantz dv4500
3 monitor audio bronze front in-wall speakers
velodyne dls4000r sub
2 nht ic2 triple-tweeter in ceiling side speakers
2 nht iw1 2 way in-wall rear speakers
so it will be 7.1 this time for a little less,might even get a better center speaker what do you think?