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I would also encourage you to look at other forums. There's nothing wrong with this one AT ALL. However, the population here tends to be of a certain bent, as do all the sites. By branching out, you can get a more balanced set of views.
Also, as correctly pointed out here on Many occasions, often directed at yours truly, what you read is somebody's opinion. There is no "zero point" or benchmark to gauge against when you read someone's impressions of a piece of gear. There are so many variables that even a seasoned listener's view of something in THEIR system may be way off in yours.
Go to shops, talk to the salespeople. Try different shops. Ask the salespeople if they're on commission. Nothing wrong with being on commission, but you need to know. Go to the big box stores and the small, local hi-fi shop, as both have something to offer. Listen to their wares and bring your own music that you know well. Ask them if they have trial periods, in home. Your other electronics and acoustics cannot be duplicated in the showroom.
DO NOT BE IN A HURRY FOR ANYTHING. You've lived this long without having item X that is now "crucial". It is rare to get the "best" piece at a "great" price when you're rushing. A great sale price on something you don't like in a month did not save you money.
Internet purchases are not a bad thing, but do more research for them than you would for a B&M buy, as you won't be able to get any first-hand impressions. Overall mark-up for manufacturer-direct merchandise is significantly less than when a dealer is involved. Make sure you know what their return policies are. Example: My buddy and I ordered speakers. He didn't like his and sent them back. This maker had a $75 crating/shipping fee to you, a 5% return/restock fee, and he had to pay the return shipping. His total cost for return was $280. I didn't send mine back, but the maker covered shipping my way and no return fee. I would have been out the return shipping only - less than $100.
Have fun. This is a great hobby and whichever way you go, you'll probably always be happy but searching. It's what keeps us all coming back, like golf.