Welcome and feel free to ask questions. Keep in mind some of the more basic concepts that many people don't understand right away...
Like - you can get cables on monoprice.com or from BlueJeansCable.com and save some cash while still getting top notch quality. No need to spend more for boutique cables that offer you no (and I mean NO) improvement. This frees up some cash for HT upgrades!
Your idea of 'above average' may not match up with what someone elses idea of 'above average'. So it is good to simply shoot to have a budget and try to stick with it. For some $5000 is a good price to pay... for each speaker. For others, $1,000 has to deliver the entire 7.1 setup they want. More people fall into this second category than the first.
In more realistic terms $3K to $5K will deliver a pretty solid mid level setup. $1K on receiver and about $2K-4K distributed among speakers and maybe a decent DVD player in there as well. When you start getting under $3K you start having to make compromises that you may not want to make. Small ones at first, then bigger and bigger.
Always - provide all the details you can! Budget, your preferences, your hard line demands (ie: They MUST be in-wall speakers due to WAF) etc. The more info you give, the better your responses will be. Even if the main response you get is 'I agree with you'.
Welcome!
Thanks B-Trix for your quick reply,
Let me tell you where I've "narrowed" it down to, BTW 5.1 is what is prewired
POWER/PROCESSING
emotiva refernce
Arcam 350
denon 3806
sony 5200 es (has waf cause she is employed by Sony, but it's quirky)
SPEAKERS
Onix
HTD
+ few others as long as they have a tower configuration (My Chapman t7's are a case in point)
Like I said, this will be my primary HT for family and friends to be able to use even when I'm not there- I don't want a call every 5 minutes just to switch sources I.E. It's GOT to be fairly easy to operate without a PHD in Physics
Now for my dedicated one that's under construction, we can step it up a few knotches, but first things first.
I can get sony stuff pretty reasonable, but I'm not too impressed with there HT equipment other than there TV's.
Damn, I can never figure out how to do the multi-quote thing