What I'm looking at.
I too am buying my first system. I don't have a HD monitor yet so am concentrating on the sound. I'm getting the Aperion Intimus concert 533 5.1 system. Check out Aperion on the web: great quality(have been reviewed here), great service (free ship, 30 day trial with free return, discounts on accessories, good build quality); 2379.00. I'm also getting the Marantz SR 4002 receiver(90x7, HDMI 1.3 out/in, lots of composite,S video, etc outs/ins) 549.00 here at the audioholics store(free ship, extended warranty after man. warranty).
Just IMO.
Happy listening