are you going with the crowontech tes-100 tactile transducers?
after doin a bunch of research i bought a pair. They are much more accurate and realistic than a buttkicker or anything else ive tested. Definately would recommend them, only thing is that i think id buy a different amp than the crowson one. check them out at
www.crowsontech.com
as for front projection, id only get that if you have a dedicated ht room that you can keep dark.
for speakers, axiom makes new in walls that are half in half out.. supposedly pretty decent sounding. if you go all axiom you can get the m60's or 80's, vp150, qs8's, and the in walls. for around.. 2500
then an SVS plus, plus/2, or ultra. or an axiom ep500.
thats all pretty good bang for the buck. and internet direct.
for receivers, you can get a denon 3805 for around 700 bucks now. the yamaha 2600, and denon 3805 are good choices too. but its over budget, unless you just buy a little at a time.