The assumption that you can get Ethernet where ever you place equipment.
True, but if someone wants the best performance, that's not just a weak option. It's always possible, but many won't pay the cost, so they find a cheap way that they hope will work. Like a set of four repeaters that cost $50. Then, they get the neighbor kid or nephew "who's good at this stuff" to configure it.
Still, if someone uses a mesh network with good security (rather than a birth date, dog's name, address, etc as their 'secure password'), it should be easy enough to prevent unwanted access.
It's also easy enough to hide the SSID after setting up the network, so outsiders can't even see it, or to use a specific SSID for the wireless that's not the same as the wired network.
I found a site years ago that showed how long it would take for someone to find the password (understanding that it might be total BS) and by choosing the keys in a visual way, it showed that the 12 character code I used would take 10,000 weeks. Obviously, it would take less time with a randomizer, but is the OP seeing people parked outside of his house for days or does he have hackers as neighbors?