Well, that being said. I am not a fan of all in one units. But the DV10 Optoma has superb specs. It has a built in dvd player, but does not need to be used since it still has the connections you have. It has a 4000:1 contrast ratio, a super quiet 27 db, MSRP of 1400. so probably could be had for about 900 or less, its 16:9 format, 1000 lumens, Dark Chip 2 technology, up to 3000 hour bulb, short focus lense, etc...
If you do not like this then, there are other recomendations I can give.