You didn’t mention if you’re having the “sound playback modes” issues with music, video programming, or both.
Basically, you should connect all components directly to the receiver, with its “monitor output” going to a TV input. So basically, the TV is only a video monitor. That should solve most of your problems.
When I test the speakers, it runs thru each of them one after the other and the levels are the same which is why i'm somewhat baffled as to why the sound is not distributed well in all sound playback modes.
The speaker test is generated solely by the receiver and has nothing to do with any other piece of hardware connected to it. The receiver can and will generate the test signal even if no source components are connected at all.
From that point, what you get in the way of surround sound modes to all the speakers is wholly dependent on the program source. If you’re watching old westerns from the 1950s, then all you’re going to get is the center channel. Indeed, most network TV programming makes little use of the surround speakers. You’ll get the most surround sound “action” from theatrical movies.
Another part of your problem might be incompatibility between the various components. If your computer and cable box only have HDMI outputs, then you need to retire the Onkyo and get a new A/V receiver. Either that or swap out your source hardware for units that have connections that the Onkyo does.
Regards,
Wayne A. Pflughaupt