I can't quite go along with this part.
Good recordings, specifically those with the appropriate/realistic amount of wetness (either captured or added in production) can produce a superb and life-like soundstage in near-field listening, at least IME. I personally find the feeling of envelopment is far better, akin to cans but more realistic since it's "out there" rather than inside your cranium. Those good recordings can put you right on the conductor's stand, or at the console in the production studio, or in the front row at the show, and the sense of the size of the acoustic space is dictated by the recording, not the influence of your listening room. I love that "walls fall away" effect, it's one of the most compelling aspects of stereo when a good recording goes holographic. I find that far field (specifically two channel) listening has a much harder time pulling off that sort of trickery. With near-field, it's practically inevitable.
I tend to view any means one can take to help their rig "get out of the way" of the music as a good thing. Whether it's mitigating-or even effectively eliminating-the influence of local acoustics, or the dramatic reduction in distortion gained from using speakers low in their safe operating range, or the resulting relatively copious, clean headroom available from both speakers and amps, all of that helps your gear get out of the way, and gets you closer to the music. And that's what it's all about, right?