I kid you not some people should be required to pass a test before their allowed to interact on the internet.
Several months ago i sold a hi end amp on audiogon,i had 6 offers to buy all within 1 hour,trying to be fair i took the very first email & accepted his offer,keep in mind thay his offer was not the highest offer,one member offered me more than my asking price but i did not accept.
It took 5 weeks for me to get paid from the buyer,no biggie, im not broke so i inform him he will be getting his amp within the week,i spend $26 on box'es & packing material,wrap the amp in shrink wrap to protect against scratches & condensation,then i wrap in 4 layers of bubble wrap,then i put it in a snug fitting box with 2" styrofoam on all 6 sides of the box & seal the box,this box was then placed in another larger box & surrounded with a combination of rigid styrofoam & peanuts for a total of 6" of packing material on all sides of the amp,this packing exceeds both UPS & FEDEX guidelines.
Needless to say the amp arrived smashed to bits,the glass is toast & several of the control knobs are bent & one spins freely,the buyer is bummed out & rightly so,again no biggie,i offer him a 100% refund including his shipping costs allready paid to me plus any shipping costs incured sending the amp back to me,all i ask of him is that he abide by the audiogon rules,make the damage report with UPS & to be sure to keep all the packing & to not throw anything away,he agreed & i told him that upon me recieving the damaged amp back i would send him all his money back plus shipping costs both ways.
I got the amp back,not in the same sturdy highly packed double box'es that i used but in a single box with nothing inside,gone is any evidence that the amp was packed according to UPS guidelines as well as any hope of me collecting one red cent from insurance,the way it looks is that i just threw the amp into a box & sent it on its way.
My first thought is to tell the buyer he must now await the outcome of UPS's decision on the insurance claim due to the fact that he willingly threw away my proper packing material & willingly chose to send the amp back the way he did,he also knowingly put my chances at recouping any insurance monies at a big zero.
Any thoughts on how to reach an agreement with this buyer,my audiogon username has 100% perfect feedback & i'd like to keep it that way but i also dont feel great about taking one in the a$$ because a buyer went outside the rules on his own.