It is not merely a question of the frequency response of the phono preamp (and how well it matches the RIAA equalization of the actual device used to make the disc, not how well it matches the RIAA specification), but the frequency response of the cartridge and the record itself, plus the frequency response of the equipment used in making the LP. Those effects are cumulative, and none of them are "ruler flat" like a CD.
Nonsense. Do you seriously expect anyone to believe that when a diamond is dragged across a piece of plastic, that the plastic is not worn by this? Even the diamond, over time, shows noticeable wear! In the case of the LP, the high frequencies are diminished faster than the other frequencies (assuming a decent setup that is not totally wrecking the records). As for the rate of wear (which I omitted in quoting you), I said nothing about that; only that it actually occurs, with each playback wearing the LP a little more.
Of course, there is an exception to this, which does not use a stylus to play the LP, but almost no one uses it:
http://www.elpj.com/
Nonsense. A recording engineer cannot magically add abilities to the inner part of the grove. The treble drop off will be greater in the center. This, by the way, is one reason why so many "audiophile" LPs do not have much time on them, and do not go very far toward the center.
As for the extension beyond 20kHz, I never said that LPs had a cutoff at 20kHz. Anything occurring up above that will be irrelevant to most humans in any case, so it would not matter if it were there (unless one had something like a recording of a dog whistle and played it for one's dog). However, the high frequency information will be lost with repeated playing of the disc, though how many times it takes to diminish it any given amount is going to depend upon many factors, including the playback equipment, how well it is set up, and the exact formulation of the vinyl LP. Given that many adults do not hear anywhere near as high as 20kHz, it may not matter for them, until the wear becomes very great.
Also, being very gradual with a decent, properly functioning turntable, one is very unlikely to notice the loss, as each playback is
almost as good as the one before it. To notice it before the wear became very great, it would probably be necessary to have more than one copy of the LP, so that one could compare one's used LP with a new one that had never been played before. But since virtually no one does that, the slight loss of quality with each play is generally unnoticed.
Now, none of this means that an LP cannot sound "good". But it simply is less than ideal for the flatness of its frequency response (among other things), and it is going to lose the treble over time, if the LP is actually played.