I think you are confusing two different issues. Pixelation is not caused by slow response times. It is caused by poor compression of the source material. The scaler in the TV can introduce pixelation as well.
A slow response time would produce a motion blur effect, not a strobe effect.
It is also true that perception varies by person. I am not fond of plasma displays because when I look at them I see an extremely annoying and constant flicker.
I haven't noticed any motion blur problems on LCD sets from Sony, Samsung, or Mitsubishi, all of which we carry at work and I see every day. I have not had any issues with my 20" Westinghouse LCD computer monitor. I play a lot of FPS games and have not noticed any motion blur.