Again, disagreement while shooting the breeze is expected.
I've owned 3 Denon POA-1000R integrated amplifiers (IA). I've owned preamps, amps, AVRs, pre-pros too.
The Denon IA was just the preamp + amp inside one chassis. No HDMI, no Optical or Coaxial connectors, just plain stereo preamp + stereo amp.
So you ask which one sounds better?
In Direct mode (no DSP, no Tones, no EQ), and all volume level matched, they all pretty much sound the same. You most likely can't tell the difference. And guess what, they all pretty much MEASURE the same in terms of FR, SNR, THD, Crosstalk, etc.
But, once the component applies some sort of DSP, Tones, EQs, all bets are off!