HDMI version shouldn't matter to the cable. When you see "HDMI 1.3" on a cable, it means it has been tested to those specs, but all of them have the same connections and should work, so I don't think cables are your issue unless you have 50ft or greater runs, then it could be a posssibility.
Check your player's setup and make sure the audio is set to HDMI, then there is likely to be a setup for that input on the receiver that you will need to check to make sure is setup for audio over HDMI rather than some other format (optical, coaxial, analog...). In the player, you might try toggling between PCM and Bistream over HDMI to see if it makes a difference to the receiver as well.