Amen, amen, and amen! I've been preaching about buying late-model used equipment as a means for the average Joe to get excellent, up to date gear for less, and that the compulsive gear-churners in this hobby make it easy to do so. That and some DIY mojo is the strategy behind my long-overdue system upgrade.
I couldn't agree more. Most of my own rig is either DIY or bought used. TSTO (the Stereo Trading Outlet), TFA (Toys From the Attic) and Audio Classics are great places to buy used high end. All three places have web sites. I introduced my audio buddies to used high end and they all have purchased equipment they would never have considered at the original selling price. By the way, that table is simply too large. Who needs all that space for one remote? About 1/4 the size would do it. With center channel speakers for dialog etc. I think that the sweet spot may not be as important to vidiophiles. I don't want to start a war here but in my experience imaging and soundstage depth aren't as important to vidiophiles as they are to audiophiles. I am well aware there is a lot of overlap here, but there is a difference of emphasis.